For the last few weeks before Christmas, I have been examining marriages and relationships either on television, newspaper, online press and verbal conversations between friends, family, and strangers. For what I hear it seems like marriages and relationships are dead. No one is committed, structured, loyal or no dedicated to one person. Mentioned previously, marriages and relationships are dead. The stories I hear from older women they are in a bad generation or era where there is no more men/man left, which I agree. I even hear that guys/boys are either in marriage or relationship, the guys have a tendency to most likely cheat on their partner or spouse. I have talked to some males and the most common answer I received from their end is that, there is no more settling down, we are to have fun. Why waste your time.
I do understand what these guys mean (I am a man myself), but I do not want to deal with that in my lifetime. Ever since I became single in December of 2008 and experienced my single life in for the first time. It was hard looking for girl/women who is structured, open, communicates and has a straight mindset (focused). I tried meeting girls/women, but they give me this defensive look and I keep getting rejected and I was thinking…..What is wrong with this picture? Mention earlier above, that was the reason why, you see a hot girl/women of course a guy/boy is going to have a wagging tail and ready to ride her in an instant. I’ll admit that between 2009 to mid-2010, my male hormones were having me jump to every hot chick I saw, but I learned how to control my temptations. Women say they have sixth senses where they know what guy/boys are looking for. Most women tell me most guys/boys want to get in their pants, nothing else more. I told these women well if they are thinking that way about me then they are wrong and to start reprogramming their thinking. That is a girl’s problem is that they tend to over think and put themselves in a bad position.
I am a relationship person, I do not go to clubs, parties or “have a good time” in today’s jargon means to really to get screwed. Today’s trends; for example, is to find a hot chick have sex with her, then on to the next girl, or find a hot chick have sex with her, get her pregnant on purpose, then have a short life and the guys benefit is that he is with a hot chick (which the guy/boy will cheat on her 1 month or less) or being with a girl like Kim Kardashian (excuse my spelling) or Megan Fox for less than a month than marry her, then get divorced a month later……… I don’t think so! I saw this many times from a 3 year calendar span which I do not accept, but every guy is doing it and some are successful (celebrity wise). I decided to concentrate 4 things, being a man, education, career, and wealth. Lately I have been talking to older women from 30 years and older. I believe that generation was the end of the old fashion days of relationships which I rather pursue than having sex with many girls and compete against my male counterparts which I think it is really ridiculous. I think it is a Los Angeles thing, so hoping in a few years later when I travel, New York, Chicago and other major cities are not like this. I decided not to have a relationship in 2012, because of the reasons I mention prior in this blog. I rather fulfill my dreams and establish a foundation for myself where I can share with my kids later in life instead enjoying a 15 second pleasure that will only last for that short time period.
I am a relationship person, I do not go to clubs, parties or “have a good time” in today’s jargon means to really to get screwed. Today’s trends; for example, is to find a hot chick have sex with her, then on to the next girl, or find a hot chick have sex with her, get her pregnant on purpose, then have a short life and the guys benefit is that he is with a hot chick (which the guy/boy will cheat on her 1 month or less) or being with a girl like Kim Kardashian (excuse my spelling) or Megan Fox for less than a month than marry her, then get divorced a month later……… I don’t think so! I saw this many times from a 3 year calendar span which I do not accept, but every guy is doing it and some are successful (celebrity wise). I decided to concentrate 4 things, being a man, education, career, and wealth. Lately I have been talking to older women from 30 years and older. I believe that generation was the end of the old fashion days of relationships which I rather pursue than having sex with many girls and compete against my male counterparts which I think it is really ridiculous. I think it is a Los Angeles thing, so hoping in a few years later when I travel, New York, Chicago and other major cities are not like this. I decided not to have a relationship in 2012, because of the reasons I mention prior in this blog. I rather fulfill my dreams and establish a foundation for myself where I can share with my kids later in life instead enjoying a 15 second pleasure that will only last for that short time period.
The only way I will pursue a relationship in 2012 is if a women is willing to open up and communicate with me and keep it going. I’ve talked to a couple of older women, but they end up falling short due to their communication. Right now, I am currently talking to this girl who is in her early 30’s she seems sweet, she’s cute, communicates very well, and has a nice personality. Which I like, she has an energy (not like that you sick freaks!) and a structured mindset. In 2012, my dating life is going to be slim which that is my prediction I am not going to be asking for dates or pursuing a relationship anytime soon. There may be women who want to talk to me, sure, no problem, but I am not going to be chasing or playing games, because I am done with that. I am going to be 25 not 16. This is only the beginning.
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